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What can you suggest?
I know that you usually like to go out with your friends on Friday and Saturday nights, maybe one of those evenings you'd like to be here? We could send out for pizzas and rent some videos.
This Sunday we have plans to go to Grandma's for dinner.
Lots of love,Mom
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Use at least several of the following principles when you write your letter:
Don't be heavy handed in your tone.Acknowledge that your teenager is no longer a child.Invite her participation in a dialogue.Suggest a solution; frame it as a request.Address each other respectfully.